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Bhutan (Source: Steve Evans) 

Living in a farmhouse in Bhutan is a great experience. A lot of farmhouses are concentrated in the Bumthang Valley but if you are going to hire guides, they can recommend farmhouses wherever you want to go.

I cannot find any specific farmhouses for you to consider before your trip but your tour guide will definitely have information about them. I tried to gather as many reviews of living in a farmhouse as I could.

Here is something I came across:

The beauty of Paro valley is embellished by cluster of quaint farm houses. Bhutanese farm houses are very colorful, decorative and traditionally built without the use of single nail. All houses follow the same architectural pattern. A visit to Farm House is very interesting and offers a good glimpse into the lifestyle of a farmer.

(Source: visitbhutan.com) 

Some travelers have this to say:

It is also possible to do a farm stay - depends which tour operator you go with and whether they will arrange that for you. I have done farm house stays in Paro and Punakha before - a great experience.

(Source: Lonely Planet travel forum) 

We did a homestay one night which was fabulous. we did a hot stone bath there, played some archery, had dinner with the family, etc. it was a great experience. it was a 300 year old farmhouse with a 200 year old shrine room. the family was very welcoming and it was a fun experience.

(Source: Lonely Planet travel forum) 

Also, here and here are forum discussions on amenities at a farmhouse. Lonely Planet also says that the Black-Necked Crane Information Centre at Phobjikha can arrange an overnight stay at a farmhouse.

The agency Blue Poppy is recommended by many travelers to Bhutan. They also arrange customised itineraries. Here is a traveler's review of the company. Also, Bhutan Pathway Tours has this itinerary that includes the Bhutanese farmhouse experience.

I've tried to include everything you want to see and do within 10 days (including traveling time). Let me know if this works for you. My fellow-guides have made great recommendations on what to see in each place and I've added a couple of other places that you might want to visit. I'm not including any activity on 18th February because you may need some time to get acclimatised to the altitude and most of the gompas and temples shut by 5pm anyway. So here goes:

Day 1: 19th February

Rinpung Dzong

Taktsang Monastery

National Museum

Jangsarbu Lhakhang: A magnificent statue of Sakyamuni Buddha lies in this nondescript temple. Here is a snippet:

This small and insignificant looking temple is home to a magnificent statue of Sakyamuni Buddha that was carried all the way from Lhasa, and also houses the protector deity of Paro. Legend has it that the statue of Sakyamuni was destined for Paro Dzong and merely placed in the temple for overnight safe keeping. However, when the time came to move the statue, it proved impossible to lift. As a result, it became a permanent feature of the lhakhang.

(Source: Wikitravel) 

Bhutan (Source: Steve Evans) 

Day 2: 20th February

Chelela Pass

Haa Valley

Proceed to Thimpu (approximately a 4 hour drive)

Day 3: 21st February

Tashichho Dzong

Simtokha Dzong

Takin Preserve

Changangkha Lhakhang: One of the oldest temples in Thimphu, it has great views of the entire valley.

Bhutan Thimphu Mercado 23 (Source: Rafael) 

Day 4: 22nd February

National Memorial Chorten

Zorig Chusum School of Traditional Arts: A school that teaches the thirteen traditional arts of Bhutan to students. There is also a store where you can buy the things made by the students.

The National Institute for Zorig Chusum is commonly known as "the painting school". It operates under the auspices of the National Technical Training Institute and offers four- to six-year courses that provide instruction in many of Bhutan's traditional arts to students from throughout the country whose aptitude is more artistic than academic. The students follow a comprehensive course that starts with drawing and progresses through painting, woodcarving, embroidery and statue-making.

(Source: Lonely Planet) 

Yarkay Central, Lungta: Great areas for shopping. You can buy handicrafts, clothes, woven goods, art work and carvings.

Proceed to Punakha (approximately a 3 hour drive)

Punakha Tshechu: Spend the rest of the day soaking in the atmosphere of the Punakha Tsechu festival. (if the festival is not on the predicted dates, feel free to shift things however you want)

Day 5: 23rd February

Punakha Dzong

Chimi Lhakhang

Rafting on Po Chhu or Mo Chhu rivers

Partial rains (Source: Soham Banerjee) 

Day 6: 24th February

Guru Rinpoche Caves (Geon Tsephu) and Koma Hot Springs (Koma Tsachu): A twelve kilometer drive from Punakha followed by a two hour hike from the small community of Mitesgang. There are 3 bathing pools at the Koma Springs, covered by simple roofs. Here's a tip:

Ponies for carrying baggage can be rented for a small fee from the house across from the suspension bridge in Mitesgang. While the walk is not overly arduous, paths are not easy to follow, and so the pony handler also acts as a guide. Mitesgang is around 12km from Phunakha.

(Source: Wikitravel) 

Proceed to Phobjikha (approximately a 3 hour drive)

Gangtey Gompa: Head to this monastery for brilliant views of the valley and the village and if you're lucky, your first Black-Necked Crane sighting.

Black-Necked Crane Information Centre: Head here for informative displays of the Black-Necked Crane. Lonely Planet says:

If the weather's iffy you can browse the library and handicraft shop, and watch videos at 10am and 3pm (Nu 200). This is also the centre of the valley's fledgling ecotourism initiative and they can arrange mountain-bike hire (Nu 700 per day), a local guide (Nu 300), an overnight stay in a local farmhouse (Nu 500) or lectures on the local ecosystem.

(Source: Lonely Planet) 

In front of Gangtey Palace (Source: Soham Banerjee) 

Day 7 - Day 9 (25th to 27th February, 3 whole days)

Trek in the Phobjikha valley. I recommend this one by Inner Bhutan. It gives you plenty of opportunity to explore the region and the flora and fauna and ample opportunities to view the Black-Necked Crane as well.

Day 10: If you choose to head to Punakha after your trip, depart from Punakha. Or you may choose to head to Thimphu, in which case, depart from Thimphu.

Chorten and prayer flags (Druk Path Trek, Bhutan) (Source: Jean-Marie Hullot) 

Indian Embassies

The Indian Embassy at Phuentsholling is at:

Embassy of India, Liaison Office of the Embassy of India in Bhutan, Phuntsholing, Bhutan

Telephone: +9755-2635 Fax: +00-975-5-252992 Email: loplg@druknet.net.bt

The address of the Indian Embassy in Thimphu is:

Embassy of India, India House, Jungshina, Thimphu, Bhutan.

Telephone: 00-975-2-322162. Fax: 00-975-2-323195. Email: hocbht@druknet.bt, eoiss@druknet.bt Web: www.indianembassy.bt

Here is some information on handling your money in Bhutan. You can also click here for general modes of payment in Bhutan.

I hope this information serves your purpose. Is there anything else you'd like to know?

Have a great trip!

- Manjiri

Bound for Bhutan (Source: Steve Evans)